Problems and solutions of abuse on children and women

People like to think that the family is a social institution, grow in the love and affection; each other support and care share a facility, its loading notified Sub. The reality is the family but in the most modern society partnerships the opposite of what she held.

This problem is especially profound in the American family.According to the public crime statistics, 20 percent of all murders within the family occur. Because children are the most vulnerable members of the family, is this a greater rate of abuse cases. It is estimated that the number of reported cases of child abuse has increased to a rate of 30 percent per year. Between 1973 and 1982, there were 1.5 million cases of child abuse; 50,000 ended with death and 300,000 with permanent injuries.

A detailed report on crime in an issue of the magazine "Epsilon" dating back to 1991 reveals the extent of rape crimes are committed in the West. The report finds that in a country like Greece, that not once has eleven million inhabitants (according to statistics from 2001), took place between 1978 and 1987 more than 10,000 reported rapes. Alone in 1982, more than 4,000 rapes were committed only in Italy. More than 55,000 rapes have occurred in France in the 80s. 102,000 rapes were reported in the United States.

The magazine will continue with reports of observations of Lernpsychologen, sociologists and doctors about the increasing number of rapes. These scientists confirm that this phenomenon in the Animal Kingdom does not occur and also does not belong to the behavior of animals. Rather, they combine the emergence of such devastating problem with the West and Western societies increasingly occur where such behaviour and the underlying values. The reason there are several factors, which include the following:

1. the media: These are one of the main factors that the offence of rape "is blown out of proportion". Series and movies show much violence, including rape crimes. Most of the films be sexual and violent incidents, in addition to x-rated films. Such performances are an incentive to mimic for the youth.

2. drunkenness has been noted as another reason behind 37.6% of rapes.

3. Furthermore, factors of the modern consumer society behind the rise of rape and similar crimes. The design of the clothes of international business houses, which show the attractive curves of the female body, have many rape crimes against women result that exaggerate the to the show places of the body parts, the recognition and attraction of the public will. Many rapists said that this was true on most of their victims. Many of the raped women reported that they were raped, as she wore a revealing and attractive clothing.

4. an educational factor shows at this point thus that children either sex by coeducation is taught how to build intimate relationships with each other. To learn how it is with each other, is just one example.

5. the break-up of the family has forced young people at an early age to search for love outside the House. In many cases, this has led to very serious consequences. Hundreds of thousands of children in the West do not know their fathers.

6. the removal of religion from public life has brought about chaos.

7. Since most Western societies on the foundations of Christian values are constructed, some false religious attitudes towards the woman looking at being bad (and mistermaheux the man), may have resulted that women be regarded as if they are worth to be the victim of a rape.

8. a was another reason leading scientists, that the law in most Western countries not enough taking seriously the crime of rape.Rapists enough are namely not harshly punished: usually imposed mild penalties of not more than two years in prison.This is the maximum of sentence.

In Indian society, the lives of women, their men perished, is unbearable, on the other hand, because they Satî (Hinduism: woman Burns) to commit a form of suicide. Gustave Le Bon wrote about this aspect of Indian society and says:

The sacrifice of widows on their husbands funeral is not the Shastra (Sanskrit: writing, teaching statement in the Hindu context), but it seems that this action in India would become commonplace, because we already find evidence in the Greek historian reports.

The female contempt can be observed also in the reports in the Indian media, who report that a large number of young girls are buried alive, because women are seen as economic burden for their parents.

The times reported that the one-child policy, today will be implemented in China, led many Chinese to wish for a male child and either to abort a female baby, kill their female toddler, or to sell their older girls "mobile slave markets". In this respect the Chinese police has taken down recently 49 members of a gang, whose job was to buy girls throughout China, to smuggle and to sell. As a result of this cruel treatment of girls in China, of Chinese land planning Committee has reported that the number of men is greater than the number of women.

The treatment of women and children in the current secular societies - whether in America, Europe, India and China - is very similar to the treatment in pre-Islamic society. Islâm came, however, in order to eliminate the abuse of women and children and to return their dignity to the women, young people, and also the old.

There is no doubt that the abuse of women everywhere a connection in the world and the setting to have these cultures towards women, between. In Islâm women are considered not as the source of the bad or as an object of sexual gratification and sexual abuse by men, as is the case in other cultures. Islâm considers women as an essential member of the family and the community. They are the source of happiness and peace. Allâh - the Almighty - says: "and among his signs is that he has created you wives from yourself so that you can find peace with them; and he has put love and mercy between you.For people who think there are signs indeed." (Sûrah 30:21)

Islâm praises the good treatment of women to a large extent, be they young or old. It calls for all members of society of to fair and just treatment of women on, no matter whether they are daughters, wives, mothers or sisters.

Abû Huraira narrated that the Prophet said: "What a pitiful appearance, what a pitiful appearance, what a pitiful appearance is the one who gets the opportunity to experience his parents or one of them in the age, and to enter (because he failed to maintain them) not in paradise." (Muslim)

Jaber said: "I heard the Messenger of Allah say: 'Who is robbed of the experience, which is deprived of (also) the quality.'"(Muslim)

Anas ibn Mâlik said that the Messenger of Allah said: "If someone pulls two girls from her childhood up to the age of maturity, I be and him on the day of judgment such as these two." He put together his two fingers (it). (Muslim)

The mourning in the West about the aging exists in not really practicing Muslim society. The family in Islâm has works by the story through successfully as a safe umbrella for its members, no matter what sex or age. The Prophet said: "The protector of a widow or a poor person is like a person who will fight... to Allah"

Anas ibn Mâlik reported that he the Prophet heard say:"Who wants more living and old age, which to the kith maintain."

According to the collected documentation of "the Epsilon" was an important factor for the rapidly growing number of rapes and beaten together women, that there is no gender separation. The fact that Islâm has prevented the full coming together between men and women, helps prevent rape crimes in practicing Muslim societies. The rule of modesty for men as well as women.Naughty staring at a woman (or even a man) of a man is a collapse of cultured behavior. When it comes to sex, decency is not only in good behavior: he not only is there to protect the weaker sex, but also to preserve the good in the stronger sex.

Allâh the Almighty says: "say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Certainly, Allâh is informed of what they do. And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their shame, their jewelry ' not openly show except that which is (otherwise) visible. And they shall beat their headscarves on the breast slot of her robe, and reveal not their jewelry, except for their spouses (...) " " (Sûrah 24:30-31)

The New York Times published an article with the title "(sexes) separation is better" in May 1993. The report was written by Susan Ostrich Ling, who had graduated to a pure woman College in the United States. It was a shock to find out that girl at female colleges academically better conclude, as their fellow students at mixed colleges for most Americans. Yousupported their claim with the following statistics:

1. 80% of girls to women universities study 1 science and mathematics, in contrast to two years of study at mixed colleges for four years.

2. woman college students achieve a higher average rating than girls in mixed schools. As a result, to accept more female students at universities. In this way, even more women have Ph.d..

3. According to the "Fortune" magazine are one-third of the female members of the Committee for custodians in the 1000 largest American companies graduates of a woman University.To understand the significance of these figures, we need to know that the graduates of the colleges of women make up only 4% of the total number of students a year.

4. 43% of female professors with doctorate in mathematics and 50% of female professors with PhD in engineering were a female college graduates.

This is a proof of the Western world, confirming the accuracy and applicability of the Islamic principles than global laws that govern human behavior and rules. The Indian politician and reporter Kofhi Laljapa concludes:

No religion except Islâm has the ability to solve the problems of modern life. Islâm is in fact unique in this thing...

The guidelines of Islâm provide the only solution for criminal problems, such as alcoholism, drug addiction, abuse of women and children, which ravage the world today. As Western influences have intervened in the Muslim society, increased the crime; where but the opposite happened - namely, that Islamic rules manifest in Western societies - the crime declined. Should you not be there the following conclusion: the moral fate of the world depends on the spread of Islâm?

Category: Family & society, Fiqh issues