5 types of family problems and their solutions
There are marriages in which there would be no problems. When the characters are two people come together, the confusion may arise between them.However, patience, diligence, forgiveness, honesty towards her husband / wife, play a big role in solving family problems.
Some of the problems that arise in marriage, and their solutions:
- Dealing with her husband's family, and his family: Conscious woman should understand that, as well as her parents, husband's parents wish their child only happiness. Therefore, a woman should show respect, honor and love for her husband's parents.
- The intervention of the wife's mother in the family business: Some mothers intervene in family affairs of his daughters. Becoming thus an advisor in matters relating to her daughter and her husband. In turn, this causes her husband's anger. Since his family life became the property of others. The solution to this problem is as follows: A woman should not tell his mother all about his family life.Women should try not to lose the trust of her husband, and did not tell anyone the family secrets.This does not mean that we should not listen to the advice and experience of older people.
- Problems associated with the brutality of her husband, a manifestation of lack of attention to his wife, and the reluctance to talk to her: Each spouse should ask yourself the question: "Where am I made a mistake, and how our family life has come to this?".In order to remedy this situation, you need to seek help from Allah. It is necessary to avoid the commission of sin, breaches of the hijab, slander, negligence, to prayer, envy.
- Financial problems in the form of a shortage of funds, extravagance wife or husband greed: Allah Almighty says in the Quran: "Eat and drink, but do not exaggerate" (al-Araf 7/31). The couple in their spending should stick to the middle path. When planning your spending, you need to determine what is the most important. From the salary should be set aside a certain part of contingency. It is necessary to determine what is needed, and spending of funds, on the basis of this.
- The problems associated with lack of knowledge of two very important things:
- Lack of knowledge of the Islamic law relating to family life, as well as negligence in these matters.
- Ignorance of the natural features inherent in both men and women. That is the ignorance of the man of nature women, and lack of knowledge of nature man woman. This causes lack of knowledge of how they should behave with each other.
Category: Creed Muslims
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