10 wise advice from the best of people
With the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful!
For life tips will not save enough. But there are those who may be "wise companion" person for life, a refuge from a variety of troubles. "Tips for All Seasons" - from the best of people.
For life tips will not save enough. But there are those who may be "wise companion" person for life, a refuge from a variety of troubles. "Tips for All Seasons" - from the best of people.
- "If" Do not talk.
Reproach and regret related to past deeds, take a lot of mental strength in humans and in general do not contribute in any significant changes. Prescribed happens, whatever way you went. In the hadeeth narrated by Abu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased 'anhu, he said that the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam, said: "... And if you come upon you anything, do not say:" If I did something and-so ", but say: 'This is ordained by Allah and He did that wished" for the "if" opens the way to Satan to his deeds. "(Muslim)
There are "if" that relate to what can not be changed, and they only drain manpower, pushing him to despair.For example, "if I had been around, he's not dead," "If I'd been born in a different place, I would not have come upon this misfortune," etc. And there are those through which a person takes a lesson from past mistakes. For example, "if I did not spend time in vain, I would have more knowledge," "If I began to teach the Koran in time, I'd already know it by heart," etc. And if the first - the way to the wiles of Shaytan, the latter - the path to wisdom and positive change.
- Do not do what you doubt.
Al-Hasan ibn 'Ali, Allah be pleased with him and his father, passed the following: "From the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam, I remember the following:" Leave inspires you doubt (and turn) to that question at you did not cause. Indeed, the truth is - it is calm, and the lie - this doubt. " Ibn Rajab, may Allaah have mercy him Allah, he said: "The Hadith says that we should leave what is in doubt, and avoid them. With regard to what is absolutely permissible, the believer does not arise in the heart of the anxiety and excitement, in contrast, the soul finds peace of mind and heart - peace. As doubtful, suspicious, then it causes anxiety and excitement. "
- Before you perform an action, think about the consequences.
It is said that one day the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, came a man and said: "O Messenger of Allah!Give me the instruction "He asked:" Are you asking instruction "He said:" Yes. " Then the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, advised: "Determined to do something, think about the consequences if there is a benefit to them, then do it, but if not, then give up on it."
- Do not say of what is not good.
Muadh bin Jabal, may Allaah be pleased 'anhu, was the favorite of the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam.And once in a way Muadh bin Jabal said to the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam: "O Messenger of Allah!Let my soul be sacrificed for you! I am concerned about one thing: I want to die before you do not feel the pain of loss. But if fate will be that you will be gone before us - what is your advice. " The Prophet, sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, did not reply, and for a while remained silent. Then Mu'adh, let him be pleased with him, asked: "O Messenger of Allah, do Jihad ?!" The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, he said: "Muaz, Jihad - a good deal. But there is better. " Then Mu'adh said, "Hold fast, read the prayer?" "It's necessary, but there is even better!"
The companion began to list all the good things. The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: "For people who have a better than this!" Muadh said: "O Messenger of Allah! Let my father and mother will sacrifice for you!What could be better than what I have listed ?! "Then the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, said:" If you say good - say - if not, shut up! ".
- Never give up.
Convey the words of Abu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased 'anhu that the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam, said: "The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than a weak believer, but in each of them is good. Be persistent that brings you the benefit requested help from Allah, and in any case do not give up. "
- Do not lose optimism.
Despite all the hardships, found him, the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, did not lose the strength of spirit, optimism and ... smile. Abdullah ibn al-Harith said: "I have not seen anyone who smiled most of the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam." In a hadith narrated by Anas, may Allaah be pleased 'anhu, said: "There is no impact of infection (except with the permission of Allah), there is no bad will and I like good optimism - a kind word (which is each one of you hears in his soul ) "
- Allow yourself to feel, but control their expression.
Sometimes believers understand the hadith literally, and it is fraught with internal conflict. For example, the hadeeth "Do not be angry," many understand as a ban on anger. Hadith that Almighty loves strong - a ban on the tears, fatigue, sadness. In fact, religion encourages people to be sincere, including willows feelings. But protects it from unwanted consequences that induce feelings. For example, the commentary on the hadeeth "Do not be angry," Imam An-Nawawi indicates that stimulation - a natural human reaction, and that this hadith calls not to act in a state of irritation.
Also in another hadith narrated that the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, to surprise his companions that he was crying, holding the hands of his panting son, Ibrahim, said: "Verily, my eyes cry, but my heart is sad, but we are talking only that which is pleasing to our Lord! "so we should not delude ourselves, suppressing their natural feelings or passing them off as another, since it is a form of hypocrisy.
- Be patient with the first seconds of the shock.
It is reported that Anas bin Malik, may Allah be pleased 'anhu, said: "Once the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam, passed by some woman who wept at the grave, (stopped), and said (to her):" Fear Allah and keep patience. " A woman who did not know him (in person), exclaimed: "Leave me alone, because you will not come upon such grief!" Then she said: "It was also the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam!" - And then she came to the door ( house) of the prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, but he did not find there the porters.She told him: "I did not know it was you!" - He said to her: "Verily patience (most needed) exercise at the first shock."
- Listen to your heart.
It is reported that Ibn Vabisa Ma'bad, let him be pleased with him, said: "(One day) I came to the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, and he asked (me):" Have you come to ask about piety? "I said," Yes. " He said, "Ask for (this) my heart (because) piety have what felt confident heart and soul, and sin - is that (still) move in the shower and fluctuate in the chest, even if people (not time) will tell you (that you did the right) "(Ahmad and Al-Darimi)
- Suppose that for each offense, an error, a sin to be a good thing.
Man is immune from sin and error. And best of us differ from the worst not because it does not make them, and that they then do with them. An orthodox after committing sin repents and "erases" his good deed. A sinner - forget about it. On the authority of Abu Dhar Dzhunduba ibn Dzhunada and Abu Abd al-Rahman Muadh bin Jabal, may Allah be merciful to them both, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and upon him be peace, said: "Fear Allah wherever you are, and let your every bad deed should be good, which make an atonement for the previous one, and relate well to people! "Every offense leaves the heart a black dot. But watch out for him a good deal erases this point, bringing light and heart on a white background.
Well, the last words of the hadith could be derived in a separate rule - rule number 11.
- Treat people well!
And probably, this rule is not self-explanatory.
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